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By default my personality rebels against tribal structures and most systems like that. The tribe and I are not friends, we're closer to suspicious enemies.

That means tribes don't tend to like me and I don't tend to like tribes. There are multiple types of primary human personalities, not one. That context annoys me, rather than increasing my sense of comfort. I do not gain an increased feeling of safety from the chatter and hub-bub of relaxed tribemates puttering nearby. I do not possess that instinct what-so-ever. If it were an actual instinct, I would possess it as would essentially all people. We know we're not alone, that there are others will also be alerted if something happens, and that they also feel safe. > We instinctively feel safest when we hear the chatter and hub-bub of relaxed tribemates puttering around nearby. You get the sense of safety in numbers, but since they are all strangers and at least in the US the social norms go against talking to strangers, you know the odds are slim that you'll actually be interrupted. This is, I think, part of why working in a coffeeshop can be so effective. So hearing that ambient chatter can make it really hard to focus. We know we're not alone, that there are others will also be alerted if something happens, and that they also feel safe.Д«ut the presence of fellow people can also mean that at any moment one of them might wander over and start talking to us. We instinctively feel safest when we hear the chatter and hub-bub of relaxed tribemates puttering around nearby. To our early ancestors, dead silence meant you were alone, and being alone in the wilderness was often a death sentence. Because we are a social species, I think one of the things that makes us feel most secure is the ambient present of a fellow tribe. When it comes to sound, those can be opposing.

SO BABY PULL ME CLOSER 1 HOUR CODE

It's hard to focus on code if you're worried that a tree is going to fall on you or a lion will drag you off into the jungle. At a more primitive, simian level, we need to feel that we're in a safe environment. Before we are comfortable untaking the work to architect a giant mental castle, we need to feel confident that someone won't come around to kick it down.Дў. We need to not be distracted and we need to feel certainty that we will not be distracted. The conclusion I came to is that humans have a few emotional needs in order to reach deep focus:ДЎ. I spend a lot of time thinking about sound and focus.

I've worked in private offices, cubicles, open plan offices, coffeeshops, libraries, and now many many hours in home both when other family members are around and when they aren't.

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